Ep. 205: Becoming a “Good Relative” with Author Hilary Giovale
EQ: How can individuals of European descent acknowledge their ancestral histories and take meaningful steps toward truth, healing, and repair in their relationships with Indigenous and Black communities?
In this powerful episode, we sit down with Hilary Giovale, author of Becoming a Good Relative: Calling White Settlers Toward Truth, Healing, and Repair, to explore how individuals of European descent can reckon with their ancestral histories and engage in meaningful truth, healing, and repair with Indigenous and Black communities. Hilary shares her personal journey of uncovering Celtic, Germanic, and Nordic roots, awakening to the harms of settler colonialism, and redefining what it means to be a “good relative” in today’s world. We discuss the significance of settler identity, the concept of “white peril,” the role of rituals and spiritual practices in healing, and her ten guidelines for building respectful, cross-cultural relationships. Through honest reflection and a deep commitment to relational accountability, Hilary offers a vision for how white settlers can move beyond denial toward connection, responsibility, and repair.
Do Your Fudging Homework:
Annie: Do Hilary’s homework–dig into your past/lineage/ways you can
Hilary: Following this guide, make a personal reparations plan
Sign up for a monthly contribution to a Land Tax program (all those I know about are listed on this page)
Read An Indigenous People's History of the United States, by Roxanne Dunbar-Ortiz
Hope: Support Tacoma Reparations
Ep. 196: New Year, Fresh Reads with Sweetpea Flaherty
EQ: What books or trends do you think will define the reading experience for 2025, both for individual readers and the community your bookstore serves?
Today, we are back with the one and only Sweetpea Flaherty of King’s Books in Tacoma. Sweepea talks us through anticipated book releases for this spring. Get something to write with, because you’re going to want to take notes!
Sweetpea also joined us for Ep 184: Hot & Steamy Summer Reads and Ep 186: Pumpkin Spice & Bookish Advice
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Nonfiction:
Dark Laboratory: On Columbus, the Caribbean, and the Origins of the Climate Crisis by Tao Leigh Goffe
Strike : Labor, Unions, and Resistance in the Roman Empire by Sarah E Bond
Authority by Andrea Long Chu
Memoir/Biography
Harder I Fight the More I Love You by Neko Case
Rachel Carson and the Power of Queer Love by Lida Maxwell
Picture Books
Make a Pretty Sound : A Story of Ella Jenkins—The First Lady of Children's Music by Traci N. Todd, Eleanor Davis
Make Your Mark : The Empowering True Story of the First Known Black Female Tattoo Artist by Jacci Gresham, Sherry Fellores
Yáadilá! : Good Grief! by Laurel Goodluck, Jonathan Nelson
Rise Up!: Powerful Protests in American History by Rachel C. Katz, Sophie Bass
Teen
They Bloom at Night by Tran Thanh Tran
Poetry
Strange Beach by Oluwaseun Olayiwola
Eternal Dice by César Vallejo
Buzzkill Clamshell by Amber Dawn
Fiction
Life of Herod the Great by Zora Neale Hurston
Death of the Author by Nnedi Okorafor
Relationship Mechanic by Karmen Lee
Listen to Your Sister by Neena Vel
Stag Dance by Torrey Peters
Buffalo Hunter Hunter by Stephen Graham Jones
Great Gifts
Black in Blues : How a Color Tells the Story of My People by Imani Perry
Bookstore Romance : Love Speaks Volumes by Judith Rosen